{This is a Be Wealthy Post}
It’s Monday and things can easily get out of our hands very quickly. I have talked to so many people who feel at the mercy of something or
someone else when it comes to getting shit done. We either blame our laundry, kids, a client, a website, or our support team, but really this is another
form of giving our power to someone or something else. And guess what? It is so not empowering. In fact, it depletes us of our youthful spirit, our
happiness, our vitality, our creativity, and creates SUFFERING, and I know you and I DO NOT want that.
So, what can we do when we are in this cycle of thinking that the technology gods are against us? Or that the overwhelm of a filthy home paralyses us?
Or worse, when it feels like we are letting someone be a vampire to our thoughts?
1. First, pin point the target of blame; whether person or thing, it feels like something outside of us…. if you are feeling yuck towards someone or
something, it’s time to address it because most likely, it is depleting you from feeling good and therefore taking energy away from your
luscious business.
2. Recognize that this is YOUR DAY, your life, and that you have power to experience it and set it up however you darn well please. With love, of
course, but if you have been giving your energy to something or someone, the only way to TAKE IT BACK, is to OWN that you are powerful beyond
what you recognize.
3. Be very clear on what you do want. If you want the website or the person to cooperate, devote your FOCUS on SOLUTIONS. This will save your
sanity, and in the long run make you more mula.
4. Now, back to #1… this “problem” that you have is but a beautiful reminder that something is off, and if you logically approach it, with the intent to
solve it, you may discover that there is an INNER BELIEF that is holding you back from the solution. Now, I’m not saying the technology or person
who is being problematic has no responsibility, but remember at the end of the day, we cannot control others or things, we can only own our
involvement in this life and business we create.
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OWNING OUR LIFE & BUSINESS IS THE GREATEST GIFT WE CAN OFFER THE PLANET.
I have experienced small businesses and large corporations who do not follow taking full ownership, and let me tell you, everyone looses when
that happens. People react with knee jerk ego based responses, passive aggresive behavior and nobody, nobody wins. Not the individual, not the
customers, and certainly not the whole.
I know, you are not like them. You are different. Your eyes are open. You want more for yourself and this planet. And I love you for that.
Without you this world will not be a better place. You are contributing in a way that nobody else can. Again, I love you for that. And remember it is OK if
you are going through a toughie in your life or business. It’s normal, in fact, if you had no challenges, you may not be on the path of great growth.
You are on the path of greatness, so feel what you feel, and remember to bring your focus to solutions, to trust yourself and the Universe
enough to know that you are capable of attracting great technology and people that serve your mission.
Love,
Asha